13th May 2013 20:31
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im-a-kittycat:

“So my amazing daughter, Emma, turned 5 last month, and I had been searching everywhere for new-creative inspiration for her 5yr pictures. I noticed quite a pattern of so many young girls dressing up as beautiful Disney Princesses, no matter where I looked 95% of the “ideas” were the “How to’s” of  how to dress your little girl like a Disney Princess…We chose 5 women (five amazing and strong women), as it was her 5th birthday but there are thousands of unbelievable women (and girls) who have beat the odds and fought (and still fight) for their equal rights all over the world

 - Jaime Moore, Not Just a Girl

26th April 2013 2:17
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  • *Man walks into a store and finds employee*
  • Man: Alright, I've had enough. Why haven't you guys hired me?!
  • Employee: Uh...well sir, when did you put in your application?
  • Man: I never filled out an application.
  • Employee: Well sir, we can't consider you for employment if you've never filled out an application.
  • Man: No, that's bullshit, because I've been coming here for years now, and every single time I tell you all how much I love this store and how much I appreciate your customer service, unlike some of your other customers might I add!
  • Employee: Well, but that doesn't-
  • Man: AND I even told you that I didn't have a job!
  • Employee: But sir, that doesn't indicate to us that you would like a job at our store. And again, if you've never filled out an application, we can't consider you. Besides, we're not hiring.
  • Man: OH! Not hiring, HA! What a laugh. I see your store go through seasonal workers all the time. They come and go like nothing, but you won't consider me as a part-time employee even though I KNOW you've been looking for workers to fill positions? That's insane!
  • Employee: Sir, we've been looking to hire a few people for management positions. Do you have any management experience?
  • Man: Well no, but what does that matter?
  • Employee: ...Well sir, that's what we're looking for. You won't be suitable for the position without management experience.
  • Man: Oh that's such a load of crap. You know, you'll be waiting around a long time for a manager if you don't lower your standards a little. Who cares if someone knows how to manage a store? I LOVE this store and I'm willing to work here, that's all that should matter to you.
  • Employee: That...doesn't make any sense.
  • Man: NO! I'm done. This is over. From now on, no more Mr. Nice Guy.
  • Employee:
  • Man:
  • Employee:
  • Man: Fuck you, slut.
18th April 2013 3:46
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Why is the term “friend zone” so popular when the term “unrequited love” already exists and is more accurate? I suspect it’s because it shifts the locus of responsibility. “Unrequited love” focuses on the person who has the crush. The feelings being discussed are the crushing person’s, thus the responsibility in on them to get over their crush and move on. “Friend zone”, on the other hand, focuses on the crush object’s choices. The phrase erases the agency of the crushing person. All blame for their pain is put on the crush object. “Unrequited love” is something that can happen to both sexes, but “friend zone” is a sexist concept that implies that women are solely responsible for men’s happiness, and not men themselves.
17th April 2013 8:28
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17th April 2013 5:39
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fancypantsuits:

forsciencejohn:

Ladies and Gentlemen, the Prime Minister of Australia kicking ass and taking names (mostly Tony Abbott’s). [x]

you should watch this video because this lady is a motherfucking badass

JULES you majestic goddess you.

17th April 2013 5:10
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scrickiras:

  • if a girl wants to be feminine
  • THAT IS OK!!!
  • if a girl doesn’t want to be feminine
  • THAT IS OK!!!
  • if a girl doesn’t adhere to society’s standards of what is “”acceptable”” i.e shaving their legs
  • THAT IS OK!!!
  • if a girl wants to shave her legs
  • THAT IS OK!!!
  • if a girl has a lot of sex
  • THAT IS OK!!!
  • if a girl doesn’t have sex
  • THAT IS OK!!!
  • STOP VILIFYING GIRLS SIMPLY FOR CHOOSING WHAT TO DO AND NOT DO WITH THEIR BODIES. THEY AREN’T YOUR BODIES.
  • THANKS (◡‿◡✿) 
17th April 2013 4:42
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15th April 2013 20:42
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katekrankz:

anomalousdata:

Nicki Minaj just delights me .

kind of my hero ngl

15th April 2013 14:35
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Violence against men happens. But never for being men. Women get hurt, raped and killed all the time for being women. That’s the difference.
A twitter user (via fiestyfeminist)
14th April 2013 23:32
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thisishangingrockcomics:

patronizing nice guy saviors suck

13th April 2013 16:57
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The sex drive of men is something we are all comfortable with in this country. It’s funny and hormonal and slapstick (American Pie), it’s potentially uncontrollable, maniacal/homicidal (American Psycho), it is adulterous and is insatiable (American Beauty), it is fun and social (American Graffiti) and it is entrepreneurial (American Gigolo). But women? No. NC-17. XXXX. Stop it with the moaning.

riese (via fuckyeahautostraddle)

I never understood why Beyond the Valley of the Dolls got an X rating until this was brought to my attention.

(via fallopianrhapsody)

20th March 2013 7:03
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We gotta start teaching our daughters to be somebodies instead of somebody’s.
Kifah Shah  (via albinwonderland)
19th March 2013 0:56
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‘Brave’ director Brenda Chapman breaks silence: Getting taken off film ‘heartbreaking… devastating… distressing’

When Pixar’s Brave arrived in theaters in June, two directors shared full credit for the film: Mark Andrews and Brenda Chapman. The project had originated with Chapman — who’d previously directed DreamWorks Animation’sThe Prince of Egypt — but at the beginning of 2011, the studio took the reins from her completely and handed them to Andrews, who’d worked on The Incredibles and Ratatouille.

It was a surprising development to say the least, given that Chapman had been Pixar’s first female director of a feature length film, not to mention that Brave featured the studio’s first female protagonist, a fiery Scottish archer-princess named Merida (Kelly Macdonald). But other than a brief comment to the Los Angeles Times in 2011 that the split was due to “creative differences,” Chapman has remained silent on the matter. Until now.

In an essay for a larger New York Times feature about women’s perpetual underrepresentation in all corners of Hollywood, Chapman wrote that the past year and a half had been “a heartbreakingly hard road” for her. “When Pixar took me off of Brave — a story that came from my heart, inspired by my relationship with my daughter — it was devastating,” she writes. 

While she still does not go into any specifics about why she was removed from the film, Chapman makes quite clear she did not agree with the decision. “Animation directors are not protected like live-action directors, who have the Directors Guild to go to battle for them,” she writes. “We are replaced on a regular basis — and that was a real issue for me. This was a story that I created, which came from a very personal place, as a woman and a mother. To have it taken away and given to someone else, and a man at that, was truly distressing on so many levels.”

Chapman does point out that ultimately her “vision” remained in the film, and that she remains “very proud of the movie.” But her last word on the matter (for now) would seem to suggest that after reportedly leaving Pixar to consult on an animation project for Lucasfilm, she’s not eager to return. “Sometimes women express an idea and are shot down, only to have a man express essentially the same idea and have it broadly embraced,” she writes. “Until there is a sufficient number of women executives in high places, this will continue to happen.”

When reached by EW, Pixar declined to comment.

[link to original article]

19th March 2013 0:23
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Boys are rarely told that their virginity is a gift, or indeed that their sexuality is about “giving” something to another person – lightly or not. Boys “get laid”, “get lucky”, “get some”. They “take a girl’s virginity”, “take advantage”; if they’re thoughtful, they “take their time”. Boys are not taught to think of themselves or their virginity as something to be offered up, unwrapped and enjoyed.

 Emily Maguire in ‘Like a Virgin’ for The Monthly (via monocled—misanthrope)

basically, young (cis) boys are taught to be predators. young (cis) girls are taught to be prey.

(via deliciouskaek)

Yep, and cis girls who speak of their own pleasure as a priority are immediately demonized for the temerity of seeing their bodies as their own. Meanwhile cis boys are supposed to seek pleasure at every opportunity.

(via karnythia)

I’m not sure what to make if the cis qualifiers here. As a trans woman I internalized all the messages about girls being passive, and I still find having to override that as a queer adult just so I can date. And even then, usually I let people come to me, not vice versa. Am I alone in thinking the original sentiment stands without acting like it doesn’t apply to trans folk?

(via theprophetlilith)

Rarely? More like never. I hate the society I live in.

19th March 2013 0:12
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The messages you received from your family or your childhood experiences may have caused you to believe that assertiveness is unacceptable or even dangerous. Practice saying the following: I have the right to be treated with respect by others. I have the right to express my feelings and opinions. I have the right to say no without feeling guilty. I have the right to ask for what I want. I have the right to make my own mistakes. I have the right to pursue happiness.
Nice Girl Syndrome by Beverly Engel